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This Couple’s Splash Mountain Proposal Is A Disney Fantasy Come True

Nothing quite says true love like a thrilling plunge down a waterfall ― at least for Eugene Williams and his new fiancé, Chris.

Williams popped the question during the couple’s Monday visit to Disneyland, and his proposal was not for the faint at heart. While many couples opt to use Sleeping Beauty Castle or other Disney landmarks as a backdrop for the big moment, Williams asked Chris to marry him with a handmade sign on Splash Mountain’s climactic, 50-foot drop, and made clever use of the attraction’s on-ride camera to capture the moment for posterity with a souvenir photo. 

Williams told HuffPost that he “always knew” that he wanted to propose to Chris at Disneyland, as the California-based couple visit the Anaheim theme park at least once a month. He said he chose Splash Mountain specifically after seeing a viral photo of a 16-year-old Disneyland visitor, who came out as gay to her parents in a similar fashion. 

Despite Williams’s best effort, there were a few unexpected twists and turns along the way, as one would expect of a thrill ride proposal. “I wanted to get to the park before it opened, but Chris and I overslept and ran into traffic on the way. I was very angsty and nervous the whole time leading to him seeing the photo,” he explained. “I was worried my plan wouldn’t work and the park would be too crowded to get our own log ― after all, it was a hot day.”

Fortunately, a polite request to a Disney cast member ensured that Williams could pull off his plan without a hitch after all. “I was nervous the whole time on the ride, but just kept giving him hugs and kisses on the ride,” he said. “I told my boyfriend that we should pretend to be shocked for the photo. When the ride was over we walked to see our photo and he said he immediately knew when he saw the sign in the photo what it was and he cried!”

Williams uploaded the photo to Reddit Tuesday, where it had racked up over 1,200 comments as of Wednesday afternoon. “We are big Disney park fans, and now every time we go we’ll be reminded of that one time I proposed and he said yes,” he told HuffPost. “My fiancé means a lot to me and seeing the joy on his face when he saw the photo was priceless.”

May you live happily ever after, gentlemen! 

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8 Healthy Habits Of Couples Who Attend Marriage Therapy

Marriage therapy isn’t just for couples in dire straits. In fact, therapists say that going early on ― and continuing to go ― can help spouses stay happy and in love. 

What healthy habits do couples who attend therapy practice? Below, eight tips from married folks who swear by marriage therapy. 

1. Recognize when you’re telling a “story.”

“The first time we went to therapy as an engaged couple, I perched on the couch and eagerly told my side of events in one fell swoop. Then I sat back and waited for the therapist to respond, which basically just meant I wanted her to side with me. Sometimes we tell ourselves stories that may or may not be accurate because we want things to be or sound a certain way. We want to be viewed as the main character (aka the most important one). The thing is, in a healthy relationship, both people are equally important and both sides of a story matter. These days, I try really hard to notice when I’m building a narrative and make sure it aligns with what’s real. I recognize that my husband’s ‘story’ may be as legitimate as my own.” ― Julia Dellitt, a writer, editor and yoga teacher

2. Listen more than you talk. 

“I am a talker. Therapy has taught me and my husband to listen more than talk. Active listening helps us to feel heard and understood. This is a practice we use everyday. We strive to listen, be attentive and validate feelings. After we both settle down we are able to work on the root issues and make a plan. It builds more trust.” ―Mikki Bey Crawford, writer at Dope Elope

3. Create couple time, even if it means waking up earlier.

“Through [going to therapy with my wife], I’ve learned that date nights and scheduled time together creates structure and improves emotional engagement. More importantly, it builds a sense of togetherness. One of my favorites? Wake up ten minutes early in the morning to connect ― cuddle with each other. Whether it leads to sex or not, the morning sets an atmosphere for a loving day.” ― Moshe Ratson, a marriage and family therapist in New York City 

4. Don’t assume you know everything about your partner.

“My husband and I have been together five years now and sometimes it’s tempting to assume I know everything there is to know about him ― which isn’t true ― especially when it comes to conflict. I remember going to therapy once and thinking, ‘Oh, this is what he’s going to say and I bet he wants to handle it this way.’ Then the conversation started and I realized I was way off, because he is his own person with his own thoughts and feelings. Remember to be open minded and give your partner space to be a nuanced individual, for better or worse.” ― Julia Dellitt

5. Give up the right to be right. 

“I feel I am usually right, although I sometimes let my husband think he is. While the truth is probably somewhere in the middle of us, we have learned not to allow the need to assert our ‘rightness’ get in the way of loving each other. Who cares who is right?” ―Mikki Bey Crawford

6. Call a timeout if things are getting too intense. 

“This is a ground rule to avoid escalation. If for whatever reason a discussion or disagreement escalates to a high degree and you feel overwhelmed, you have the right to ask for a ‘timeout.’ Feel free to say, ‘this isn’t a good time, I feel overwhelmed and need a break.’ But be sure to reschedule time to talk about the subject within 24-48 hours.”  ― Moshe Ratson

7. You can be honest now or honest later but eventually, you have to tell the truth if you want to move on.

“I’m a people-pleaser at heart, so in relationships I frequently feel the need to hide information. Why? I want everyone to like me. I quickly learned in therapy there’s no other path forward but an honest one. You’re actually wasting time and money if you show up to a counseling session without being willing to share your truth. There’s no need to be bluntly honest 24/7, but when you’re having an issue with the person you love, it’s better to deal with it sooner or later. Addressing the problem immediately in a compassionate way, rather than procrastinating a conversation, is the fastest way to start getting back on track.”― Julia Dellitt

8. When all else fails, give each other hug or a kiss. 

“Therapy has emphasized the importance of physical touch our marriage. It is healing. When all else fails kiss. It works like a charm.” ― Mikki Bey Crawford

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7 Habits Of Truly Resilient Couples

In any relationship, even the very best ones, couples will encounter problems big and small ― everything from day-to-day stresses like bills or bickering to bigger ones such as losing a job or a sick loved one

One thing that often separates the strongest couples from the weaker ones is their resilience, or the ability to bounce back in the wake of a trying situation. Below, relationship experts reveal what the most resilient couples have in common. 

1. They don’t play the blame game. 

“It’s easy for partners to blame each other when a relationship hits a low point. But blaming almost always leads to counter-blame, which ultimately leads nowhere. Resilient couples, on the other hand, look inward when things aren’t going well and ask themselves, ‘What could I have done differently in that situation’ or ‘What can I do now to make amends?’ Instead of waiting for the other person to extend an olive branch or change his or her behavior, resilient spouses are proactive in terms of getting things back on track. Taking the high road is more important than being right.” ― Michele Weiner-Davis, therapist and author of Divorce Busting

2. They can find humor in tough situations. 

“Daily pressures and responsibilities related to finances, childrearing and workplace demands sometimes lead to conflict and tension. A hallmark of a resilient marriage is a willingness to laugh or use humor to halt unproductive communications. A couple I worked with noticed that if their fights were spiraling, it often helped if one was willing to break the tension by smiling, opening their arms and exclaiming: ‘Let’s hug it out!’” ― Elisabeth LaMotte, therapist and founder of the DC Counseling & Psychotherapy Center

3. They ask for help when they need it. 

“Every relationship has challenging times, and sometimes they’re just too much to handle on your own. It takes courage to ask for help, especially for men. But often it’s the willingness to get guidance and support from an experienced professional that separates the relationships that make it and those that don’t.”  ― Kurt Smith, therapist who specializes in counseling for men

4. They’re not afraid to be vulnerable.

“Resilient couples share their emotions without fear of expressing vulnerability. They confide in one another about fears and hopes, and respond compassionately to one another’s disclosures. Particularly when undergoing stressors, couples need to speak openly and lean on one another.” ― Samantha Rodman, psychologist and dating coach

5. They don’t expect their partners to read their minds.

“Resilient couples use words, not mind reading. They ask the extra question to clarify what their partner is saying instead of making assumptions. Many arguments and hurt feelings are the result of misunderstanding or misinterpreting what the other is saying, and simply putting your reaction on hold to say, ‘I’m sorry, I don’t think I understand, could you clarify that for me?’ can help you avoid hurt feelings and pointless spats.” ― Ryan Howes, psychologist

6. They’re committed to solving problems, not ignoring them. 

“My favorite guide is the thought, ‘You are not the problem. I am not the problem. The problem is the problem and together we can fix it.’ One example from a couple I worked with: After an unpleasant 10 minutes accusing each other of causing a minor traffic accident that got them cited for a ticket, each partner backed away, said they both contributed to the mishap ― but focused on the larger problem: that they often are inattentive to what’s going on around them because each of them is multi-tasking.” ― Pepper Schwartz, professor of sociology and certified sexologist

7. They have a genuine desire to move forward. 

“Hardships can bring out the worst in partners. Certain challenges, like cheating, can cause couples to get stuck in the pain, preventing the relationship from being able to move forward. For example, some partners keep a mental list of every time they’ve been hurt by their mate. Then, when in the middle of a challenge, they recite not just their current pain but pile on every past hurt. Resilient couples are able to focus their energy on ways to move their relationship forward rather than looking backward.” ― Kurt Smith

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14 Perfectly Cheesy Wedding Ideas For Couples Obsessed With Pizza

When two pizza lovers fall in love, you know the wedding is going to be one saucy soiree.

Below, we’ve gathered 14 wedding ideas for couples who are just as obsessed with pizza as they are with each other. 

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18 Cards For Couples Who Avoid Lovey-Dovey Stuff At All Costs

For some couples, romance means roses and sweet nothings whispered over a fancy candlelit dinner. For others, it involves Netflix marathons, eating pizza on the couch and most importantly, a shared offbeat sense of humor. 

If you and your boo fall into the second category, then we’ve rounded up 18 alternative greeting cards tailor-made just for you two. 

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3 Toxic Mistakes That Can Tear Young Married Couples Apart

Even strong relationships are susceptible to marriage mistakes, particularly if the marriage is relatively new, according to Pastor John Gray of Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas. Pastor Gray often counsels couples and newlyweds in matters of marriage, and he says there are three particular marriage mistakes that are toxic enough to tear two people apart.

MISTAKE #1: Holding your spouse hostage to past mistakes.

People make mistakes. When your partner says or does something that offends you, it’s important not to harp on that mistake in the future. Instead, Pastor Gray says, you must give your spouse the opportunity to learn and grow. “That can mess up a young marriage because nobody knows how to do it right at the beginning,” he points out.

MISTAKE #2: Assuming married life won’t be different from dating.

What does a little piece of paper end up changing? A lot, says Pastor John. “When you engage another human being willingly with the opportunity to walk away, which is what dating is, there’s less pressure,” he explains. “When you get married, now you’re saying, ‘I’m building with this person.’ … There will be tension.”

MISTAKE #3: Telling your business to your parents.

Pastor John calls this one of the biggest mistakes young married couples make. “Lady, if he offends you, don’t tell your mama. Because when he ends up apologizing and getting it right, and you’re healed from it, the mother still remembers it,” Pastor John says. “Keep your business to yourself.”

Pastor John’s new series, “The Book of John Gray,” premieres Saturday, April 15, at 10 p.m. ET, but you can  watch the first episode in full now on WatchOWN.tv.

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Artist Paints Interracial Couples Just Being, Together

In the early 1990s, painter Kerry James Marshall created a series of paintings depicting black love ― a subject that, despite being glaringly simple, was largely absent from the annals of art history.

In one 1992 painting, “Slow Dance,” a black couple slow dances together in their living room as music notes swirl around them. Marshall immortalizes this romantic moment, exceptional in its ordinariness, magical because it’s mundane. With his paintbrush, Marshall sought to normalize the banal elements of black life that are nearly always overlooked by art, film, and cultural representation. The basic gesture of depicting black couples hanging out was something revolutionary. 

Artist Leslie Barlow had Marshall on the mind when she embarked on her most recent series “Loving” in 2015. The mixed media paintings depict interracial couples based around the Minnesota area, where Barlow lives and works. The series takes its name from the landmark Supreme Court case Loving v. Virginia, which celebrated its 50th anniversary this year. 

Fifty years feels wildly short when considering this is how long interracial marriage has been legal in the United States. And still, prejudice regarding interracial couples endured long past the Loving ruling. “I think a lot of people forget that there is this history of discrimination, and it didn’t just disappear when the Supreme Court banned anti-discrimination laws,” Barlow told The Huffington Post. “I wish that was the case, but racism is totally alive and well in this country.”

This inequity is painfully clear, for example, in the history of art, where oil paint has been used to tell certain kids of stories about certain kinds of people for centuries, leaving whole populations unrepresented and seemingly overlooked. “My work is about having agency over the representation of my story and stories like mine,” Barlow said. “It’s a sharing of experiences we don’t often see.” 

Barlow, who is mixed race, began making work that grappled with themes of race and identity while in graduate school. Her earlier work mainly depicted members of her immediate family, but with “Loving,” Barlow hoped to create equally personal works for a larger community.

In particular, she was interested in the local Minneapolis–Saint Paul population, which still lags behind most other U.S. states in terms of race and representation. “The lack of diversity in Minnesota did have an impact on my racial development and ideas of what was ‘normal,’” Barlow said. She resolved to illustrate interracial couples, still largely erased from the cultural archives, hoping the intimate depictions could steer viewers away from binary methods of thinking about race that operate primarily in terms of black and white. 

For the series, Barlow selected couples and families in the local vicinity, most of whom she knew through personal connections. “I wanted the paintings to meet these families where they are,” she said. She began by photographing her subjects in a space they felt comfortable ― whether at home or roaming the neighborhood. She then rendered the photographic images onto un-stretched canvasses or wooden panels, starting with acrylic underpainting and adding layers of oil paint and pastel. 

Barlow also experimented with sewing and collaging fabric onto the works, subtly alluding to the traditions of quilting and tapestry. “The quilt is a coming together of these disparate materials to make something beautiful, whole, uniquely its own thing,” she said. “It ends up being a metaphor for these people coming together to become one family. Quilts also bring up these ideas of domesticity and family, the warmth of that.”

Although the Loving case is the impetus for the series, the paintings themselves depict couples and families ― hanging out, cuddling, drinking a glass of wine ― just being, together. “I want each painting to be unique, but to also have this thing in common of feeling normal,” she said.The artist communicated with all of her subjects beforehand to agree on an environment and activity that represented their daily lives. “The paintings felt mundane in the best of ways. That’s what I want, to normalize these images.” 

Although race and identity have long been ideas central to Barlow’s artistic project, they are especially necessary right now, when racist and anti-immigrant rhetoric are becoming commonplace under President Trump’s administration. “I don’t shy away from my art being political,” Barlow said. “I do believe in the power of images and social change. I think, as an artist, it’s my duty to reflect the world and what’s going on within it. I feel it’s important I continue to push that.”

Leslie Barlow’s “Loving” is on view until March 25, 2017 at Public Functionary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. 

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Couples Were Asked If They’d Have A Threesome. Here’s What They Said

Like anything sex-related, you’ll never know if your partner is into threesomes unless you ask. 

In the video above, the team over at WatchCut got the conversation started, asking couples if they’d ever be down to share their partner in bed. Some of the pairs have already done it.

“We don’t do it with people we know,” one boyfriend explains. “No kissing! And no spending the night ― [it’s] a one and done kind of deal.” 

Some couples aren’t exactly on the same page.

“My wife is for me; I don’t want to share or be part of somebody else’s fantasy,” one husband says. “I’m just not that into that.” 

His wife, on the other hand, seems a bit curious about the possibility. 

“I don’t know about now but I probably would have before?” she says. “I don’t know! I’d definitely have to be drunk.”

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Gwyneth Paltrow Consciously Couples With ‘Glee’ Boyfriend On Instagram

Out of all the things to come out of “Glee” (a Lea Michele-Naya Rivera feud, Jane Lynch’s overdue recognition as a comedic genius, rampant slushie abuse, etc.) we never expected that Gwyneth Paltrow would be the one carrying the torch all these years later. 

Well, the Oscar-winning actress and her television executive boyfriend Brad Falchuk, who met while working together on the hit TV musical series, have been dating for nearly two years now. They’ve somehow managed to keep things on the down low apart from a group photo collage here and a paparazzi-heavy party there. 

That is, until Wednesday, when Paltrow consciously made the coupling Instagram official by sharing a sweet message to Falchuk on his 46th birthday. Break out your $ 200 pelvic floor exercise tracker, because these two aren’t’ fooling around!

“Happy birthday handsome,” she captioned a photo of the two of them cozying up together. 

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Apart from the selfie, we don’t exactly know how Falchuk decided to spend the big day, but we can only hope that it included Paltrow reprising her “Glee” character Holly Holiday for a a birthday rendition of “Forget You.” 

Coincidentally, Paltrow’s ex-husband Coldplay’s Chris Martin celebrated his 40th birthday the day before Falchuk’s. Despite the developments in her love life, the actress and Martin still remain close, as the two co-parent their children Apple, 12, and Moses, 10. 

Speaking with InStyle in December, Paltrow revealed that Martin would still “take a bullet” for her even though they are no longer together. 

“He’s at my house every single day,” she said. “We have our own lives but we still have our family life.”

Falchuk is also dad to two kids with his with his ex-wife, Suzanne Falchuk, so when it comes to this pairing, it’s one big happy family. 

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This Is What Happens Behind The Scenes Of Couples’ Instagram Pics

Social media is all about keeping up appearances: That casual selfie you took with your boo and posted to Instagram? No one needs to know that was your 35th try and the other 34 pics are total garbage. 

The BuzzFeed video above gives us an all-too-real glimpse into what goes into achieving the perfect pic when you’re in a relationship. If you’ve ever loved someone ― but loved your social media reputation just as much ― you’re bound to relate. 

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This Couple’s Disney World Proposal Is A Fairy Tale Come True

When Gregory Anderson decided to propose to his longtime boyfriend, Craig Moss, he knew he wanted the moment to be, in a word, enchanting. With that in mind, he said there was only one location that made absolutely perfect sense: Walt Disney World.

When Anderson, 28, began dating Moss, 26, he was thrilled to find out that his new boyfriend was just as “Disney obsessed” as him. The guys visited Walt Disney World for the first time as a couple in 2016 and had an “amazing” time, which inspired Anderson to brainstorm ways to pop the question when they returned to the Florida theme park last month. 

Anderson’s dream came true, and in a scene that could easily have been lifted from a Disney classic, he dropped to one knee before Moss in front of Cinderella Castle during the couple’s Jan. 31 visit to the Magic Kingdom. With the help of a Disney cast member, Anderson live-streamed the proposal on Facebook so that friends and family could watch the moment back home. (Watch that video of the proposal above.)  

“Trying to decide where in Disney World I wanted to do it was difficult because I didn’t want to be obvious and I kept changing my mind,” Anderson told The Huffington Post. “His mum had known for ages, too, and she kept messaging throughout the holiday asking when I was going to do it ― so I had to lie to Craig about who I was on the phone to. It was all magically stressful!”

Disney-themed proposals, of course, are nothing new. Still, it’s particularly heartwarming to see a same-sex couple reaffirm their love with the Magic Kingdom as their backdrop. With that in mind, Anderson hopes his proposal video, which currently has over 7,000 views after being posted on Gay Star News, Instinct Magazine and other media outlets, and photos inspire other LGBTQ people to pursue their own “happily ever after.” 

“I used to believe that every relationship had arguments and fights, that if you had a passion for something you should tone it down in order to be accepted by your LGBTQ peers,” he said. “I was so unhappy trying to fit into the gay scene, that it took me a while to discover a whole new world of self-appreciation. If you’re a Disney geek, embrace it! Someday you’ll find someone just like you who you’ll never fight or argue with and don’t ever settle for less!”

The couple are planning a 2018 wedding. Naturally, the ceremony will include a few nods to Disney. “I have it in my head that it’ll be set up just like the ballroom scene in ‘Beauty and the Beast,’ but that’ll probably be a little over budget,” Anderson quipped.

Congrats, gentlemen! 

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9 Famous Couples Whose Whirlwind Courtships Actually Led to a Lasting Marriage

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11 Comics For Couples Who Are Basically Two Big Kids At Heart

Life is easier when you and your partner are more or less two big kids at heart. Just ask illustrator Caitlin Quijano.  

On her site Anemone Lost, the 26-year-old Canadian artist draws witty, semi-autobiographical comics about adulthood and everyday life with her husband. They’re also super relatable; who hasn’t gotten peeved at their partner for the sin of Netflix adultery

Quijano’s illustrations have netted her over 7,000 followers on Facebook, but her biggest fan is still her hubby. 

“He’s been my biggest cheerleader since the beginning,” she told The Huffington Post. “When I draw a comic, my goal is always to make him laugh ― if I can do that, I know I’ve done my job.” 

See more of Quijano’s endearing comics below or head to her site to see them all. 

 

 

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This Elderly Couple’s Viral Story Is Proof That True Love Exists

If you don’t believe in true love, you haven’t heard Iris and John’s love story. 

In a viral Facebook clip from the British E.R. documentary series “24 Hours in A&E,” we meet lovebirds John and Iris, a couple who have been married for 65 years.  

Though John is in the hospital for a heart problem, all his focus is on Iris, who sits nearby him throughout the hospital visit. John eventually reveals that Iris is in the first stage of Alzheimer’s disease

“The snag is, you know, it’s not going to get any better,” John tells the camera. “It’s sad. But I mustn’t be greedy. We’ve both had a good life together.” 

John also describes the couple’s first date on June 28, 1946. (Yes, he remembers the exact day.) 

Though his initial plan was to take Iris to an expensive theater in Leicester Square, his future wife suggested a cheaper movie. After the movie ― the 1946 film noir “The Dark Corner” ― the pair ate beans on toast together. Years later, John saw the movie playing on television and recorded it. 

“Now, when we have special celebrations, we have our beans on toast and we have the film,” he says. 

The clip has garnered over 350,000 “likes” on Facebook and left plenty of people teary-eyed. 

“That hit me so hard,” one man wrote.”The fact that he’s grateful for the time they’ve had, I can’t think of what to say. Just beautiful.” 

“Thanks, now I’m sitting at work bawling my eyes out! I’m a bouncer!” another man admitted. “Do you know how hard it is to have people take you seriously as a bouncer when you’re crying?” 

It’s OK, bouncer bro. Just show them the clip and they’ll understand.

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Why Couples Should Try Watching Porn Together

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Wouldn’t it be great if money is the one thing you never argue about?Think of these exercises as a fitness program to improve the Financial Health of your relationshipIt’s for the reader who wants to invest 45 minutes to prevent money problems in the relationship and live in financial peace. Aside from the exercises, you will also get examples, links to the articles from top personal finance bloggers, links to free home budget templates, and helpful money-saving mobile apps overview.I don’t insist on doing all the exercises, but do as many as you can in the listed order. Use them not only for financial improvement, but also for open and honest money talks with your loved one.”Family Money Fitness Program” is a wonderful idea for engagement or wedding gift according to the feedback from the first readers. It was inspired by Dave Ramsey’s “Total money makeover”, but it also adds valuable relationship advice, particularly for young couples and newlyweds. Moreover, it will motivate you to act in the following areas:- Organized living- Financial planning for couples- Money management for couples- Budgeting and saving money- Maintaining monthly budget- Marriage and money discussions- Earning more moneyIt might be a light and intelligent engagement gift for your relationship; )Please check free sample to find out more…From the AuthorGiven my 10 of experience in corporate finance, five years in personal finance and an MBA, you would expect my wife and me to have a perfect money management system. However, during two years of marriage, there was a lot of miscommunication in discussing our money issues. For me, Home Finances for Couples offers a hope that, although we made some mistakes, it’s not too late in our relationship.I’ve been reading around 50 American and Canadian personal finance blogs over the last three months to extend my knowledge and understand the money issues arising in modern type of long-term relationships. Bloggers advise on personal wealth management, smar

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8 Comics That Long-Time Couples Have Lived IRL

One of the best perks of settling into a long-term relationship is the ability to be totally, unabashedly yourself ― quirks and all. And the doodles below, by illustrator Enzo of the comic series Cheer Up, Emo Kid, capture that perfectly.

Check them out, and go here for more. 

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65 Percent of Couples Forget to Factor In the Honeymoon When They’re Wedding-Planning

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Matt Damon And Jimmy Kimmel Reveal The Reason For Their ‘Feud’ In Couples Therapy

The Martian” star Matt Damon has had it easier surviving on Mars than getting on Jimmy Kimmel’s show, so on Monday the pair finally tried to resolve their issues.

In couples therapy, Damon reveals he’s been trying to get on the show for about 12 years because he actually likes it. He has been on before, but apparently he’s now living there and still tries to get on it every night. In fact, Damon even admits Kimmel was the reason for some of his career choices, including the movie “We Bought a Zoo.” (Rough one, dude.)

Kimmel also talks about how he’s been trying to get Damon on the show, but it’s hard because, you know, it just is.

Will they ever work out their issues? Eh, probably not. But at least we should get another 12 years to watch the attempts.

“Jimmy Kimmel Live!” airs weeknights at 11:35 p.m. ET on ABC.

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18 Out-Of-The-Ordinary Wedding Venues For Unconventional Couples

So many lovely weddings have been held in hotel ballrooms — but that traditional type of venue isn’t right for every couple. 

With that in mind, we dug up 18 beautiful, quirky and unexpected places real brides and grooms have tied the knot. Check them out below. 

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Tandem Surfing Couples Are The Definition Of #RelationshipGoals

Surfing and romance, it turns out, go hand in hand. 

In ancient Hawaii, catching the same wave on separate boards was considered a highly romantic gesture.

According to Ben Finney’s and James D. Houston’s Surfing: A History of the Ancient Hawaiian Sport, “Hawaiian legends abound in tales of thwarted and successful love affairs, and surfing played a part in many of them. Great romances could blossom or fade with the rising and falling of the ocean swells.”

As the photos below show, tandem surfing — when two people catch a wave on the same board — can be even more intimate. Being simultaneously in tune with both your sweetheart and the ocean is as exhilarating as it is picture perfect.

So next time a dinner and movie just isn’t cutting it, grab a (very big) board and float out into the waves with your love.

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Here’s What Happened When The Internet Was Asked To Photoshop A Couple’s Kissing Photo

They probably should’ve seen it coming. 

Imgur user damnfiddles took to the photo sharing site last week, and asked netizens to “please Photoshop away the kid” in a picture showing a couple locking lips.

 Let’s just say the request wasn’t exactly heeded.

Click through the gallery below to see the Photoshop magic:

 

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26 Same-Sex Couples Who Couldn’t Be More Excited About Saying ‘I Do’

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The Supreme Court’s landmark decision to legalize gay marriage nationwide on Friday was cause for celebration all across the country. Here at The Huffington Post, we decided to commemorate this historical day by rounding up some of the best same-sex wedding photos we could find.

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26 Same-Sex Couples Who Couldn’t Be More Excited About Saying ‘I Do’

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26 Same-Sex Couples Who Couldn’t Be More Excited About Saying ‘I Do’

Love wins!

The Supreme Court’s landmark decision to legalize gay marriage nationwide on Friday was cause for celebration all across the country. Here at The Huffington Post, we decided to commemorate this historical day by rounding up some of the best same-sex wedding photos we could find.

Below, 26 wonderful wedding pictures that show the absolute bliss of finally saying the words “I do.”

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Same Sex Wedding Tips for All Couples

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Marriage equality is flourishing across the United States, yielding more same-sex weddings than ever before. But unlike “traditional” straight couples, same-sex couples have no templates or roadmaps to fall back on when planning their nuptials. Here I share a few ideas – some from my own experience – for navigating the unknown terrain of same-sex weddings, all of which will help any couple (gay or straight) who want to celebrate individuality over tradition.

Your Wedding Challenges are Opportunities
With no GPS to lead the way, you and your fiancé are forced to ask yourselves three important questions:
1. What are we doing?
2. Why are we doing it?
3. How do we make it happen?

Same-sex couples have always been forced to be awake at the wheel of their relationships and marriages. I feel it’s because they have had to fight for recognition in the face of adversity. So – along with straight couples who deviate from the norm – think of your wedding-planning challenges as opportunities to create meaningful celebrations on your own terms.

Incorporate Guests Into Your Story, Not the Other Way Around
Assemble a menagerie of faces that make you feel like you. And choose not to invite anyone who might compromise your event with what I call ‘Overtly Toxic Prejudice’: a reflexive, pernicious need to induce shame in those they do not understand. Anyone down with OTP does not have a place at your wedding.

By taking charge of your guest list, you also empower yourself to bring people into your world, on your terms. For instance, when family members slip up and call your event a “party,” just remind them how important the day is for you, how important the word “wedding” is, and how meaningful it will be for you to share it with them.

Remember, you are inviting them into your story as a couple, not contorting yourself to fit into theirs.

Personalize, Rewrite, or Create New Rituals
You get to think about which wedding rituals you like, which you do not, and which are rooted in the tradition of brides as property (which are many of them). You then get to decide which of those rituals, if any, tell your story. If none do, you can always create your own, and then celebrate them in your own way.

Here are some examples:

The Proposal. You can reenact a “traditional” proposal where one proposes to the other on bended knee. But you can also invent a refreshing proposal of your own. And you can cast yourself in the role of proposer, proposed to, or both.

For example, my husband and I invented Proposal Week: a mini-vacation during which we agreed to psyche each other out with almost-proposals at various dinners and excursions until it spontaneously happened for real. Instead of exchanging rings, we created a symbolic video featuring the people in our tribes and emailed it to them. It served as both our engagement announcement and our save the date.

Parties. Have a shower, a bachelor(ette) party, or any other pre-wedding bash if you want. Whatever you end up doing (i.e., cake decorating classes, wine tasting, bar hopping, or bungy jumping) just make sure you actually have fun and that the party symbolizes who you are, independent of your spouse-to-be.

The Wedding Party. And speaking of parties, you get to decide who you want to represent you on the big day, without the gender binary getting in the way. That means that unlike many brides and grooms in the past, you get to choose bridesmen, groomsgals, or any other attendant in your wedding ensemble without the oppressive rule of “boys on this side of the aisle, girls on that side.”

What is also trending is not settling on any specific color theme for attire; don’t feel the pressure to have everyone in the wedding party match ensembles. For example, for our New England fall wedding, my husband and I chose to wear non-matching brown suits and asked our parties to wear any fall leaf color of their choosing. It was wonderful to watch the autumnal ensemble flurry their way down the aisle.

The Ceremony. Don’t feel as though you have to abandon tradition altogether. There may be aspects of sectarian customs that inspire you. For example, my husband and I both grew up going to Christian churches, and though we are not religious now, we liked some of the aesthetics of the services. We chose classic texts that reflected stories like ours – drawn from Gilgamesh and Plato – as well as church-like music selections that felt personal, from Philip Glass and Sinead O’Connor. Our spiritual guests not only got to reflect on our love, but also had no idea the service wasn’t taken from the Bible.

The Reception. Do you need to smash cake in each other’s faces? No. So if you don’t want to, don’t. If you want a first dance, do it: fast or slow, just the two of you, or with everyone as a big group. And if you want to dance with parents, why not go ahead and dance with your same-sex counterpart?

Your Wedding is a Performance
Don’t be afraid to embrace the limelight. It’s your day, so you should enjoy it.

That being said, you’ll want to prepare for show time the way actors do for a play. Allow yourself to daydream about each stage of the wedding ahead of time. Fantasize about the attention you will receive each step of the way, and how nice it will be to take that in. The more you are prepared to enjoy the attention, the better time you’ll have and the better time your guests will have. Trust me.

Also, don’t be thrown by relatives who may cringe at the sight of you kissing your beloved at the altar, your PDA in photographs or on the dance floor, your choice of outfit, or any other way in which you choose to enjoy the spotlight. These “traditional” or conservative relatives might induce inhibiting shame in you. Don’t let them. They are not the arbiters of appropriate. They simply suffer from what I call ‘Spotlight Ambivalence’: mixed feelings about exposing truth when it challenges the norm, causing folks to object when you take center stage. It’s about them, not about you.

But you might be able to actually glean tips from these same relatives. Ask them about their weddings and conflicts they had with their relatives when planning them. You might disarm them and find connections in unexpected places.

What You Take In Is More Important Than What You Put Out
Whether we’re straight or gay, we all face the exact same wedding dilemma: How to celebrate who we are and who we love, and how to take our crucial people along with us for the ride. The ensemble you assemble will nourish you – if you mentally prepare to take them in.

*This post has been adapted from Mark O’Connell, LCSW’s book, Modern Brides & Modern Grooms: A Guide to Planning Straight, Gay, and Other Nontraditional Twenty-First Century Weddings.

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Why Couples Fight: The Top 5 Issues

I love to talk about love — even some of the darker parts of coupledom like arguments, fights and problems. After all, without the dark we wouldn’t have the light!

Most of us don’t realize that there are patterns to how we fight…and make-up if we so choose to work at it. Ask yourself:

Are you having the same fight over and over again?

Your arguments might be more common than you think. Can you relate to this awesome video?

The Science of Fighting

According to Marriage and Family counselor Dr. John Gottman, a true expert in this field, 69 percent of marriage conflicts are never solved. Yes, 69 percent!

That means that we are often having the same fight over and over again.

This is actually good news. Why? If we have similarities or patterns to our fights it means a) we are not alone and b) we can study, predict and course-correct our arguments before they explode.

Dr. John Gottman has over 40 years of research with over 3,000 married couples. He calls these unresolved issues ‘gridlocked’. Watch this video for more:

Gridlocked Issue: A common topic that comes up for a couple that cannot be resolved and typically devolves into a nasty argument.

The Top 5 Issues Couples Fight About:

What do most couples fight about? Here are the 5 most common issues:

  • Free Time

  • Money

  • Housework

  • Physical Intimacy

  • Extended Family

Fighting Solutions:

Here are some ways you can use the science of couples to help your relationship:

1. The New Mindset

How to Fight Better: I want us to shift the focus to fighting ‘better’ as opposed to fighting less. Why? Fighting better is about having discussions, not arguments. It is about respectfully hearing the other person when perpetual problems come up. It’s also a lot of pressure to try to fight less. We all want to fight less, but the point of this article is to deepen understanding and that can mean discussing more.

2. Identify Your Issues

One of the most interesting discussions I have ever had with my husband was identifying our ‘perpetual issues’. We sat down and thought about the problems and topics that have come up recently and looked for patterns. Did any of them fall into the top 5 above? Were there any common threads or underlying themes to our arguments. The answer — yes. We didn’t realize it at first, but we were basically having the same 3 arguments over and over again with different dressing.

  • Sit down with your partner (or with a journal by yourself) and review all of the arguments you have had recently or any big blow-up fights over the last few months. Try to identify the patterns under the arguments.

  • Once you have identified your patterns, clearly delineate each partner’s side of the argument. Do this in non-judgmental terms. For example, an issue could be ‘spending.’ Husband likes to treat himself to little dinners out regularly, whereas Wife likes to save up for big treats. Neither is ‘wrong’ but this way you know where you both stand.

3. Localize Don’t Globalize

One reason that little arguments can erupt so quickly is because a small disagreement can be tagged onto one of your larger arguments and immediately explode into the big fight. You already know your issues and where the other stands, so it is very important to keep small arguments compartmentalized and specific to the situation. This can help you focus on the issue and keep the discussion as just that — a discussion. Since you know you have fundamental differences on the larger argument, there is no reason to bring it into everyday discussions.

  • Try to avoid globalizing the other person or their behavior. Try not to say “You always do this” or “This is your pattern” or “You never…”

  • Don’t call up past arguments or offenses. I know it’s hard, but it will only exacerbate an issue that is gridlocked (devolving into a larger fight).

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4. Start with Agreement

If a gridlocked issue comes up on a daily basis and you need to approach it, start with agreement. Dr. Gottman noticed that successful couples who have been together for a long time master gentleness. They present issues in a soft way by never starting with criticism. In fact, starting with agreement is the best way to avoid an argument and start a discussion. Find something you can agree upon and start there.

  • For example, if you have family coming in for the weekend and Wife wants a hotel, but Husband wants house-guests, Wife could say, “I know we can agree that family time is important and I know we can both get a little annoyed when we are overrun with nieces and nephews. Let’s try to think of a way to make this weekend work.”

5. Look Underneath the Argument

This is the hardest one, but the most important. Sometimes there are underlying issues beneath the gridlocked issue. I want you to think about what’s happening behind the argument. Are there value-based differences? You might actually be arguing about basic philosophical concepts like someone’s sense of self, power, freedom, care, what family means, what home means or control. Look at your gridlocked issue and ask the question “Why?” 5 times. *Be sure to get buy-in to do this from both people, so it is exploratory not antagonistic. For example:

  • Wife: I am very upset right now.

  • Man: Why?

  • Wife: I need more help around the house.

  • Man: Why do you feel that way?

  • Wife: I feel overworked and overwhelmed with the stuff that needs to be done.

  • Man: Why do you feel overwhelmed?

  • Wife: It just feels like it all lands on me at the end of the day.

  • Man: Why do you feel it all lands on you?

  • Wife: I don’t see you offering to help and that makes me frustrated.

  • Man: Why does that happen?

  • Wife: It makes me feel under-appreciated.

Ok, now they are onto something! Yes, help around the house is great, but it all boils down to feeling under appreciated. If the husband were to make the wife feel more appreciated — perhaps thanking her for what has already been done, that might be even more beneficial than helping. Combining help and gratitude could be the ultimate healer in this fight.

6. Acceptance

Knowing your issues and where you stand can help prevent you from having the argument over and over again. Agreeing to disagree and naming the issue can prevent arguments in the future. For example, I was walking a couple through this exercise and this process happened:

  • Common Issue: Vacationing with the in-laws. Husband doesn’t like to vacation with his in-laws, Wife does.

  • Localize: Trip to Hawaii over Thanksgiving

  • Agreement: We both know we need a vacation and we are due for an in-law visit.

  • Why’s: Wife learns that the reason Husband doesn’t like to vacation with the in-laws has nothing to do with them. He loves the in-laws! But he wants more couple time. “We are so busy during the work week that our vacations are the only alone time we get together.”

  • Acceptance: This is a difference in preference — it is not an attack on the in-laws or a desire not to vacation together. A possible compromise to recognize the underlying need for alone time could be to go on vacation a few days early before the in-laws arrive.

  • Success!

You want your perpetual issues to be more like the crazy uncle who shows up unannounced and less like the hidden rabid dog in the closet. In other words, the more your issue is talked about, tolerated and discussed, the easier and less trap-filled it will be.

Sometimes it feels like talking about the nitty-gritty side of romance is taboo, but I think when we explore the issues we learn and benefit. Let’s bring the light to the dark.

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#FollowMeTo Couple’s Wedding Photo Is A Breathtaking Chapter In Their Adventure

Photographer Murad Osmann is famous for following his girlfriend around the world. Last weekend, he made a promise to hold her hand forever.

Osmann’s “Follow Me To” project began in 2012, when he started capturing images of girlfriend Natalia Zakharova holding his hand in different locales around the globe. After rising to Instagram fame and publishing a book in January, the two married on Saturday, June 6 in a gorgeous ceremony.

Osmann shared a snapshot from the nuptials along with a sweet message to his bride, writing, “I promise to hold your hand and tell you I love you every day for the rest of our lives.”




“We were all waiting for the moment to do the #followmeto shot right after the ceremony,” Osmann told The Huffington Post in an email Tuesday. “After we both said ‘yes,’ we [decided] to ask all the guests to participate in our photo … In the shot [on my account] I am reaching her hand and trying to follow her to the big red door that was a part of the ceremony decorations and we [used] it instead of the typical wedding arch. She is leading me to the new life and in the picture she is inviting me into it.”




Zakharova, who looked beautiful in a Vera Wang gown, shared photos on her own Instagram account including ones by photographer Nikolay Zverkov.




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If you are looking for romantic ideas to use for any occasion this is the book for you. Denise Brienne gives you 250 romantic ideas to use anytime of the year. Jam packed with only the best and most unique ideas this audiobook has it all. Need an idea for something romantic to do on the cheap? It’s in here. Want to surprise your partner with something special just for them? Gotcha covered. Need that something extra for a birthday or anniversary? No Problem. Like nothing else on Amazon or the Internet, this Volume 1 is enough to keep you going all year long. Never run out of something romantic to do.

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Last week, Ireland made history by becoming the first country to legalize same-sex marriage by popular vote, giving gay people the right to marry once the law is written into the legislature in the next couple of months.

The European country is now one of 19 international territories that have legalized gay marriage, along with 37 U.S. states and the District of Columbia.

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11 Ways Same-Sex Couples Are Reinventing Old Wedding Traditions

When it comes to wedding planning, many of the standard matrimonial traditions simply don’t work for same-sex couples. Psh, who likes rules anyway? BuzzFeed reached out to Kate Schaefer, founder of H & H Weddings, to provide some insight on how same-sex couples are making their big day different. “LGBT couples are faced with a unique set of challenges as they plan their weddings; there are no rules! None. Zilch,” she says. “This can leave couples feeling overwhelmed, or unsure of what traditional elements of weddings to include. The best way to plan is to do whatever feels the most you.”

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See Couples Sexting For The First Time In This New BuzzFeed Video

Let’s face it: sexting is a reality of the 21st century. But how that dynamic plays into your romantic relationships is completely up to you.

In this awkward but funny video from BuzzFeed, three couples sext on camera with one another for the first time, including one gay couple. If anything, all three couples look like they’re having an immense amount of fun throughout the whole process.

Maybe sexting is good for some relationships after all? Check out the video above.

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12 Couples That Almost But Never Were Actually Couples

Remember the time that C.J. and Toby finally realized they were madly in love and began a romantic relationship that went down in favorite-TV-couples history? No? That’s because it never happened. It should have, but alas, “West Wing” mastermind Aaron Sorkin doesn’t really care what you want. Sorkin isn’t the only writer/producer/creator who kept some of our favorite almost couples from having beautiful and meaningful relationships. Occasionally, audiences were treated to, say, an awkward kiss never to be repeated, an “I love you” that was quickly taken back or — at most — one night of romance.

In a match-making collaboration with Juicy Fruit, we’re recapping some of our favorite never-were couples from film, television and literature — the ones that left us wishing the love birds would all realize their true feelings, leading to an ending filled with both figurative and literal fireworks. Warning: this list contains spoilers.

Will Truman and Jack McFarland (“Will & Grace”)

Jack was there for Will when he came out of the closet. There was also that almost romantic night they didn’t actually spend together on Karen’s boat. Will supported Jack financially and Jack reminded Will when he needed to hit the gym. Isn’t that the very definition of a couple? Despite the zings about Will’s weight and hairline, and Jack’s spazztic personality and frequent unemployment, these two really cared for each other and found ways to show it, including that one time Jack told Patti LuPone to shut her “beautiful brassy trap.”

Hermione Granger and Harry Potter (Harry Potter books)

Plenty of readers thought that something more should have blossomed between Potter fans’ favorite witch and wizard. Ron always seemed a bit too dim for Hermione. But her relationship with Harry displayed respect, kindness, love and a deeper understanding of one another. Ron and Hermione constantly bickered. Plus, Ron was incredibly awkward and had zero game. But there was a comforting shoulder to cry on and blue eyes for days with the ever-sensitive Harry.

Peggy Olson and Don Draper (“Mad Men”)

Peggy Olson: a great example of a strong woman who wouldn’t be afraid to tell a man what’s up and to get his act together. The recent downward spiral Don experienced would never have happened had he been involved with Peggy Olson. She would not have put up with that crazy business. And when it comes to their work, they make each other better. We’d also love to see Peggy with someone who won’t cut his nipple off and give it to her in a box.

Liz Lemon and Jack Donaghy (“30 Rock”)

They decided in Florida that their untraditional friendship was too interesting to become romantic and ruin everything. But that didn’t stop many fans from wishing sparks had flown between “sister-ployee” and “work oracle.” Jack suffered from major mommy issues and Liz, a serious cheese problem. Despite their flaws and differences (and there were many), the two looked out for each other. Remember in season three when Liz flashed an entire room at a business retreat to pull the attention off of Jack when he forgot to remove his mic? While they were certainly not the best people in the world, Jack and Liz weren’t the worst, either. “Graduate students are the worst.”

Willow Rosenberg and Xander Harris (“Buffy the Vampire Slayer”)

Everyone loves to watch lifelong best friends fall in love. The only hitch for Willow and Xander was, the sparks started while they were in love with other people. They kissed in episodes throughout season three (including one where Cordelia nearly died trying to rescue them while they were getting cozy). Guilt-ridden by their betrayal and the hurt they caused, the two never developed a long-term romantic relationship. Eventually Willow fell in love with another witch and Xander fell in love with an ex-demon and almost everyone died.

Frasier Crane and Roz Doyle (“Frasier”)

Work relationships in TV shows are a breeding ground for sexual tension. Straight-shooter Roz was never afraid to get into a verbal battle of wits with Frasier. As his producer for his radio show she freely mixed her own two cents in to his advice for callers. The zings about her healthy sexual appetite and his pretentious yet childish demeanor flew back and forth throughout the series. Still, there were plenty of warm moments between the two of them. They slept together once, and it made things super weird, but in the end they smoothed it all over and restored a solid friendship. They were both complete messes (he had a crazy ex-wife and her baby-daddy was a college undergrad) but they created a perfect balance at the same time.

Leslie Knope and Jean-Ralphio Saperstein (“Parks and Recreation”)

Strictly speaking pre-Ben, here. Despite the soft spot we all have for Jean-Ralphio’s shenanigans and the way he sings the end of every other sentence like he’s Mary J. Blige laying down a track at Columbia, Ben Wyatt trumps Jean-Ralphio any day. That being said, we think Leslie and J-R could have had an interesting connection, not too dissimilar from the time that Ann and Tom dated. Leslie would have been an organizing influence on him — and his fake death in the series finale would have gone a lot smoother because of it.

Dottie Hinson and Jimmy Dugan (“A League of Their Own”)

There may not be crying in baseball, but we’re crying over the fact that she didn’t stay in Rockford. Imagine the career the Peaches’ starting catcher would have had if she’d left her dairy farm and her World War II-wounded veteran husband for her coach. Like any queen of diamonds, Dottie knew how to put a washed-up, occasional misogynist like Jimmy in his place. Not to mention, her command of the field earned his respect. It’s hard to say how a romance would have changed things, but there definitely would have been a new generation of insanely talented ball players who could catch foul balls in mid-splits and bat over .500.

Brienne of Tarth and Jaime Lannister (“Game of Thrones”)

He saved her life at the cost of his own hand, and she managed to reunite him with his indifferent family. Arguably, Brienne is the only person with whom Jamie has been truly open, which shows his trust and respect for her. Likewise, she has shown the same for him. He’s beautiful and rich, and she, well, isn’t … but it could work. Mr. Martin, if you’re reading this, incest is so two season ago. Bring on the Tarth.

Edith and just about ANYONE (“Downton Abbey”)

Aside from the dead ones, Edith is probably the unluckiest character in Downton. Her demeanor and untraditional look regrettably marks her as the “other” daughter when introduced at dinner parties. First, we saw her jilted at the altar by an old dude with whom no one was really hoping she’d ride off into the sunset. And just when we think she’s found true love with married man Michael Gregson — so many things wrong with that scenario to start — he goes off to Germany, gets murdered and leaves her pregnant with his child out of wedlock. At this point, we’d settle for any well-meaning, age appropriate suitor for Edith. Not an easy task when it literally feels like the eligible bachelors on this show keep dying off or heading across the pond to America (in which case, they may as well be dead).

Dr. Ian Malcolm and Dr. Ellie Sattler (“Jurassic Park”)

If it weren’t for that pretentious, awkward-around-children Dr. Grant, perhaps Ellie would have taken Ian’s flirting more seriously. Who can resist a chaos theorist who knows how to rock a black leather blazer to a field expedition? She definitely wouldn’t have lured him back to another dino-filled island in the second movie. If only love — like life — found a way.

Mindy Lahiri and Peter Prentice (“The Mindy Project”)

As Peter left for Texas to follow love, he told Mindy she is his best friend. And when he came back just before his wedding, he asked her to be his best man (cue the sappy noises from the audience). They share a lot more in common than she and Danny, and how adorable were they as a fake couple at Mindy’s ex’s wedding? If they ever got together, we bet they’d spend weekends picking out cute outfits for Nicole the dog, reading gossip magazines and crashing weddings of professional athletes.

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This Is What Happens When Couples Try To Wear ‘Undies For Two’

Ever thought about what it would be like to actually wear Fundies, aka couples’ underwear with four legs holes? We didn’t think so.

BuzzFeed asked four couples to try out four rather bizarre “couples” products, including The Armadillow (couples’ pillows), Smittens (shared mittens), matching sweatshirts and Fundies.

The results were interesting. For the most part, the couples had awkward and strange experiences, but one pair did say the Fundies “kind of brought us together in ways we didn’t expect.”

Hey, that’s something!

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17 Honest Valentine’s Day Cards For Couples With An Unusual Take On Romance

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean that you and your boo are huge proponents of Valentine’s Day and all of the mushy-gushy, red rose B.S. it typically entails.

That being said, there’s no reason happy couples shouldn’t find a less nauseating way to celebrate their love. Below we’ve rounded up 17 alternative V-Day cards for couples with a less traditional definition of romance.

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Are These Random New Celebrity Couples Really Dating?

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Check It Out: Couple’s Chic Library Wedding Reception One For The Books

Since medical professionals Michelle Ciarlo and Christopher Jones met as passionate academics, their wedding reception in a majestic library proved to be an appropriate chapter in their love story.

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8 Things Married Couples Get Wrong When It Comes To Sex

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“A healthy sex life is a key ingredient to a happy, loving, and lasting marriage,” says sex expert Nikki Ransom-Alfred. Yet, “after the excitement of the wedding day and settling into marriage, couples will often find that the quantity and quality of sex will take a downturn.” So what’s a married couple to do? Check out these eight things you’re likely doing wrong without even knowing it, and have fun correcting the problems beginning tonight!

You’re not doing the deed often enough.
“Sex is how you express love and desire for each other, and connects the two of you on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level,” Ransom-Alfred says. What’s more, when you orgasm, your brain releases dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin — the love hormone — that keeps you crazy about your guy. “Discuss with your partner how often he would like to have sex and then see how you two can compromise so that all parties are satisfied,” Ransom-Alfred suggests. Hint: The more often, the merrier you both will be.

You’re not openly discussing what you want.
“Couples are often embarrassed to discuss sex with each other, even though they have it with each other,” explains Ransom-Alfred. “Some are nervous to talk about their wants and desires for fear of being judged or turned down by the other.” Start by telling your significant other that discussion about sex and sexual desires are a safe zone. Then, “talk with each other about sex acts that you’ve always wanted to try, new sex positions, what turns you on, what turns you off, and more,” Ransom-Alfred says. “This will only enhance your sex life together and enhance your marriage overall.”

You’re playing it safe — and repetitive — when it comes to sex.
“It’s common to become so comfortable in our relationship that we neglect we need to keep our sex lives new, fresh and exciting,” says Ransom-Alfred. “Marriage is forever, and you can’t expect to have the same kind of sex for the rest of your lives. You will indeed get bored in the bedroom and that spells trouble for the marriage.” Ransom-Alfred suggests cracking open the Kama Sutra for inspiration and new positions you could try.

You’re wearing your sweats to bed.
“We definitely need to keep it sexy in the bedroom, whether we’ve been married for two months or two decades,” insists Ransom-Alfred. “Taking the time to be appealing for your partner shows them that you really care about them, about looking good for them and about your marriage.” Make it a habit to slip into something silky when you get under the sheets. “Or wear one of his T-shirts to bed if that’s what he finds sexy,” she says. Of course, you can also go naked, too, and we doubt your husband will complain!

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You’re not taking your time with foreplay.
“Discuss foreplay with your partner and ask what they like, what really gets them hot and also how long he wants foreplay,” suggests Ransom-Alfred. “Sexiness starts in the mind, so foreplay should begin well before taking your clothes off.”

You’re not spontaneous enough.
“Sex does not always have to happen at night, nor does it always have to be in the bedroom,” Ransom-Alfred says. “Keep things spontaneous by surprising your partner with a sex session in the morning, in the shower while you two are getting ready, or the middle of the day.” Another tip to keep things extra-hot? “Call your spouse right before lunch and have them meet you at home for a quickie!” she suggests.

You’re not making your bedroom a pleasant place to make love.
“Many couples do not realize it, but the décor in your room will have either a positive or negative effect on your mood,” explains Ransom-Alfred. “If your bedroom looks bland and boring, you will feel the same when you enter it. Your bedroom is your sensual space, so you want to feel sensual when you walk inside of it.” Up the sex factor in your personal space by investing in fresh flowers, scented candles and plush pillows that beckon for romance.

You’re not showing enough non-sexual affection.
“While a slap on the bottom or a sexual grope is hot, be sure to still show your partner affection and love in non-sexual ways such as hugging, massaging and holding them,” advises Ransom-Alfred. That kind of physical love and affection translates outside the bedroom, and last until your next sex session. “The more loved a spouse feels, the more open he or she will be sexually.”

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Clooney! Jolie! Elton! Kimye! 19 Celeb Couples Who Wed In 2014

Something must have been in the air during 2014; the year that’s just about to wrap up had a bumper crop of A-list weddings — some that were a little more private than others. Here’s a look back at some of the big names who tied the knot, sent with our best wishes for their happily ever afters!

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Same-Sex Couples Are Less Likely To Divorce Than Heterosexual Couples, New Study Shows

This post originally appeared on Bustle.

By Pamela J. Stubbart

Opponents of gay marriage, this one is for you. New evidence from the Williams Institute suggests that same-sex couples are less likely to divorce than heterosexual couples, so anyone who has ever argued that gay couples are “ruining” the sanctity of marriage, well, it looks like you’re totally and completely wrong. Oops.

According to data gathered and analyzed by the Williams Institute (a research group focused on “sexual orientation and gender identity law and public policy” at UCLA), within the first four years or so that same-sex marriage has been legal in New Hampshire and Vermont, just 1.1 percent of same-sex marriages have ended in divorce. If you include the data from six more states regarding same-sex civil unions and registered domestic partnerships, the same-sex dissolution rate per year ticks up to about 1.6 percent of all legally-recognized partnerships. Both of these same-sex splits per year rates are lower than the 2 percent of heterosexual marriages which dissolve per year in the United States.

As the Williams Institute also points out, the number of same-sex couples choosing to get married following the Supreme Court’s 2013 Windsor decision is rising quickly — even in states where same-sex marriage was already legal. This suggests that as public opinion of same-sex marriage continues to improve, more and more couples will be drawn into the institution (even those couples who were previously unsure about marriage), though these couples may or may not be more likely to divorce in the long-run, so continued analysis is required.

Unfortunately, persisting inequality in marriage laws also makes it more difficult for same-sex couples to separate: as a same-sex spouse, you can’t get a divorce in your home state unless that state recognizes your marriage in the first place, which could partially account for why divorce rates are so low.

But as long as we’re talking about positive news, here’s some more food for thought: according to another recent study published by the University of Melbourne earlier this summer, children of same-sex parents may fare better than those of similar heterosexual couples too. So advocates of “traditional” marriages and families, take that.

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You’re Invited To This Gay Couple’s Countryside Wedding — And It’s Beautiful

Get the tissues ready!

In this adorable video documenting the wedding of gay couple Matthew and Tom, the viewer is transported to the idyllic countryside along with the couple’s family and friends.

It’s always nice to be reminded that despite all of the conflict in the world, two loving queer individuals can now wed one another in more states than ever before.

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Pope Francis Marries 20 Couples, Including Some ‘Living In Sin’

VATICAN CITY (AP) — Forty “I do’s” — or “Si” in Italian — were pronounced in St. Peter’s Basilica Sunday as Pope Francis married 20 couples, with one bride already a mother.

Francis in his homily likened families to the “bricks that build society.” Among the couples, all from the Rome area, is one in which the groom’s first marriage was annulled by the church and the bride has a daughter from an earlier relationship. Some of the other couples already were living together.

The Vatican views sex outside marriage as sin, but Francis stresses the church should be a forgiving one.

He said marriage was “real life, not some TV show.” He told the couples love of Jesus can help whenever their love “becomes lost, wounded or worn out.”

Many rank-and-file Catholics have pressed the Vatican to allow divorced faithful who remarry to receive Communion. The Vatican has stood firm, contending only if remarried Catholics forsake sex can they receive Communion. Catholics can only remarry in the Church if their first marriage is annulled, essentially a declaration the initial union never existed.

Some hope a major Vatican meeting next month on family concerns might lead to permission for divorced Catholics who remarry to receive Communion. Francis has reportedly told a woman in his Argentine homeland whose husband’s first marriage wasn’t annulled she was free of sin and should take Communion anyway. The Vatican quickly clarified that the pope’s private conversations don’t reflect church policy.

Sunday’s weddings performed by Francis could also be seen by status-quo defenders as the Vatican’s way of stressing that marriage, because it is a sacrament, should endure. One by one, the 20 couples were called by name by Francis, who asked if they’d be faithful for the rest of their lives.

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These Are The Top U.S. Cities For Couples, According To Rent.com

Living in a big metropolis like Manhattan, Los Angeles or Chicago can an awesome experience for young lovebirds. But there are plenty of other smaller, lesser-known cities that have a lot to offer.

Rent.com recently compiled a list of the best U.S. cities for couples based on factors such as a high percentage of married adults, a low percentage of divorced couples and a variety of dining, entertainment and other activities available nearby. Find out if your city made the list below:

1. Newton, Massachusetts

2. Staten Island, New York

3. Edison, New Jersey

4. Fremont, California

5. Arlington Heights, Illinois

6. Sunnyvale, California

7. Troy, Michigan

8. Irvine, California

9. San Mateo, California

10. Bellevue, Washington

11. Woodbridge, New Jersey

12. Columbia, Maryland

13. Newport Beach, California

14. Farmington Hills, Michigan

15. Torrance, California

Rent.com considered cities with populations of at least 75,000, where more than 25 percent of households are rental properties and where the crime rate was lower or equal to the national average. All stats and demographics were provided to Rent.com via Onboard Informatics, a data and technology company.

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12 Couples Who Totally Defy The Annoying Couple Stereotype

When people think engagement photos, they usually envision couples standing in an open field, sucking face and holding a bunch of baby pink balloons.

If that’s your thing, power to you. But there are plenty of other couples out there who are doing some awesome things with their engagement photos that completely debunk that stereotype.

Below we present a carefully curated selection of couples who are so ridiculously cool, you’d happily agree to be their third wheel any day of the week.

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13 Secrets Of Happily Married Couples

It’s often said that marriage is a lot of work — so it’s refreshing to hear from couples who not only figured out how to make their love last, but are having an awesome time doing it.

On Sunday, a Redditor posed the question, “Why are you still married?” The replies, from real-life couples who are just as in love now as when they said “I do,” give a glimpse into the makings of a lasting marriage.

Below, 13 secrets of happily married couples:

1. They trust each other.

“We don’t judge each other. We trust each other. We don’t have one of those wild tempestuous marriages. No one will ever write a book about us and there will never be a Lifetime movie based on our relationship. But I am in exactly the kind of relationship I have always wanted.”

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2. They take the good with the bad and become stronger for it.

“We are coming up on 19 years next week. I am still married because I totally respect him for how he has held my hand through the bad times. The good times were good, but the bad times were 10x worse. His friendship and commitment never wavered.”

3. They respect each other.

“Married for 39 years. Why? I still get that funny warm feeling in my stomach when I hear his car drive into the driveway. He treats me with respect and he’s a hell of a lot of fun on a road trip.”

4. They’re honest with each other.

“11 years together, two years married … he provides me support when I need it and tells me when to ‘suck it up, princess’. He deals with all of my family bullshit and brings me ice cream … he gives the best hugs and is amazing in bed.”

5. They find joy in the little things.

“He’s the person I most want to hang out with whether it’s going out eat, acting like an idiot at a concert, or just sitting together watching TV. And he feels the same way about me. It’s great. No matter what life throws us (and it’s thrown a lot so far!), we always know we will be there for each other.”

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6. They embrace each other’s differences.

“I love being married. My wife and I are opposites. I am impulsive, she is detailed. I am aggressive she is reserved. Together we are like a fucking superhero, winning and conquering all!”

7. Sure, they argue, but they always fight fair.

“[My husband] never has unkind words for me, even when he’s upset. It means the world to me that we can ‘argue’ and still say ‘I love you.'”

8. They have fun, even when doing absolutely nothing at all.

“The most important thing starting out was that we loved being with each other. We made each other laugh. We could do something or nothing and have a great time because we were together. We just fit.”

9. They cheer each other on.

“Married for 25 years. She is a force of nature, all 104 pounds of her. This woman does everything, sings like an angel, dances, cooks, mixes cement, lays tiles, does woodworking, quilts, builds mosaics, gardens, runs her own restaurant and bed and breakfast. She is so alive. She lights up the room every time she walks in with her joy.”

10. They love each other — flaws and all.

“[My wife] made a man out of a mess. She allowed me to make mistakes without hating me for it … she loves me when no one else does … she made me whole.”

11. They feel lucky that they found each other.

“We’ve been together for 10, married for three. He is literally the best person I have ever known. I would do anything for him. We make each other ridiculously happy, it’s kind of gross … We play video games together, go climbing together, cook together, you name it. Sometimes I cannot believe how lucky I am because this relationship is so damn easy.”

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12. They support each other.

“[My husband] is so supportive in everything I do. He lifts me up when I’m down, always encourages me when I feel discouraged and when I need to talk about my feelings, he’s always there to listen. I mean it when I say I married my best friend.”

13. They understand that “in sickness and in health” is more than a phrase — it’s a promise.

“We’ve been married nine years, together for 13. Eight years ago I became significantly disabled. We were a two income house and I took care of pretty much everything at home. And then I couldn’t work anymore. I couldn’t cook or clean. I couldn’t do our grocery shop or pay our bills. I know he didn’t think he could do it, but he does it all. He finished his PhD while still working and having to do all the housework and even down to having to bathe me when I couldn’t … He’s a remarkable man and I adore him.”

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$89 and Up for a 1-Night Couples Package or Family Package in Niagara Falls with Dining Vouchers (Up to $400 Value)

City: Toronto
Start Date: June 16, 2014
End Date: June 23, 2014
Value: $ 275
Price: $ 89
Purchases: 10
Purchases required: 1

Highlights:

  • Options available to travel in June, July, or August.
  • Dining credits include $ 70 to Ruth’s Chris Steak House for the Couple’s Package, and $ 30 to the Outback Steakhouse for the Family Package.
  • Hotel is conveniently located across the street from Fallsview Casino and just 1 block from the Falls.
  • Stay in a spacious room with 2 Double beds and your own private balcony!
  • Perfect getaway suited for Couples or Families.

Buy Details:

  • Includes a choice of:
    1. $ 89 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in June.
    2. $ 119 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in July.
    3. $ 129 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in August.
    4. Tax of 17.24% is not included and payable to the hotel.
  • Couples Package Includes: a $ 70 dining voucher at Ruth’s Chris Steak House, 2 select drink tickets Ruth’s Chris Lounge, $ 10 dining voucher at IHOP Restaurant, and 2 tickets to the IMAX Theatre: Niagara Miracles, Myths & Magic.
  • Family Package Includes: $ 30 dining voucher at Outback Steakhouse, $ 10 dining voucher at IHOP Restaurant, $ 25 game play card at Captain Jack’s Pirate Cove,
    60 tokens to the Brand New Fun Zone Arcade, Admission for 4 to the Brand New Galaxy Quest Lazer Tag.
  • Please select package and travel window at checkout.
  • Reservations required and are subject to availability.
  • After purchasing your voucher reservations must be made online. Instructions for booking will be sent to you one hour after purchasing when your voucher becomes active.
  • All accommodations are for 2 people in a Standard Room with 2 Double beds and a private balcony.
  • Blackout Dates: June 27-29, July 1-5, 26, Aug. 1-3.
  • Dining vouchers are not redeemable for cash, have no cash value, cannot be combined (alcohol and gratuity not included) and are dine-in only, one voucher per restaurant per stay, valid with purchase of two adult entrees.
  • Valid to book and travel until Aug. 28, 2014.
  • Refund Policy: within 14 days of purchase only. No refunds if room has been booked with hotel.
  • Unlimited buys and unlimited gifts.
  • TeamBuy TICO # 50019980.

Description:

Best Western Fallsview:

  • $ 89 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in June ($ 250 Value)
  • $ 119 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in July ($ 325 Value)
  • $ 129 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in August ($ 400 Value)
  • Tax of 17.24% not included and payable to the hotel.

Hotel Info:

Self Parking is $ 20 per night.
Max 5 person occupancy. Additional adults are $ 12 per person per night (children 12 and under are free).
Check in 4pm, Check out 11am.

Room Amenities:

All Rooms have a Balcony or Patio, Flat-Screen TV, Coffee Maker, Irons and ironing board,
Hair dryer.

Dining Onsite

Free Shuttle Service provided to: Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse, Outback Steakhouse, The Keg Steakhouse and Bar, East Side Mario’s, T.G.I.Friday’s, and IHOP.

Entertainment and Recreation

Located across the street from the Fallsview Casino & 1 block from the Falls.
Indoor and Outdoor Pools, Business Center, and 24-hour Mini Mart.

Expires: August 28, 2014
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Merchant Link: http://www.bestwesternfallsview.com

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$79 and Up for a 1-Night Couples Package or Family Package in Niagara Falls with Dining Vouchers (Up to $400 Value)

City: Toronto
Start Date: June 12, 2014
End Date: June 16, 2014
Value: $ 275
Price: $ 79
Purchases: 1
Purchases required: 1

Highlights:

  • Options available to travel in June, July, or August.
  • Dining credits include $ 70 to Ruth’s Chris Steak House for the Couple’s Package, and $ 30 to the Outback Steakhouse for the Family Package.
  • Hotel is conveniently located across the street from Fallsview Casino and just 1 block from the Falls.
  • Stay in a spacious room with 2 Double beds and your own private balcony!
  • Perfect getaway suited for Couples or Families.

Buy Details:

  • Includes a choice of:
    1. $ 79 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in June.
    2. $ 109 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in July.
    3. $ 119 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in August.
    4. Tax of 17.24% is not included and payable to the hotel.
  • Couples Package Includes: a $ 70 dining voucher at Ruth’s Chris Steak House, 2 select drink tickets Ruth’s Chris Lounge, $ 10 dining voucher at IHOP Restaurant, and 2 tickets to the IMAX Theatre: Niagara Miracles, Myths & Magic.
  • Family Package Includes: $ 30 dining voucher at Outback Steakhouse, $ 10 dining voucher at IHOP Restaurant, $ 25 game play card at Captain Jack’s Pirate Cove,
    60 tokens to the Brand New Fun Zone Arcade, Admission for 4 to the Brand New Galaxy Quest Lazer Tag.
  • Please select package and travel window at checkout.
  • Reservations required and are subject to availability.
  • After purchasing your voucher reservations must be made online. Instructions for booking will be sent to you one hour after purchasing when your voucher becomes active.
  • All accommodations are for 2 people in a Standard Room with 2 Double beds and a private balcony.
  • Blackout Dates: June 27-29, July 1-5, 26, Aug. 1-3.
  • Dining vouchers are not redeemable for cash, have no cash value, cannot be combined (alcohol and gratuity not included) and are dine-in only, one voucher per restaurant per stay, valid with purchase of two adult entrees.
  • Valid to book and travel until Aug. 28, 2014.
  • Refund Policy: within 14 days of purchase only. No refunds if room has been booked with hotel.
  • Unlimited buys and unlimited gifts.
  • TeamBuy TICO # 50019980.

Description:

Best Western Fallsview:

  • $ 79 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in June ($ 250 Value)
  • $ 109 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in July ($ 325 Value)
  • $ 119 for a 1-Night Stay on Sunday-Thursday in August ($ 400 Value)
  • Tax of 17.24% not included and payable to the hotel.

Hotel Info:

Self Parking is $ 20 per night.
Max 5 person occupancy. Additional adults are $ 12 per person per night (children 12 and under are free).
Check in 4pm, Check out 11am.

Room Amenities:

All Rooms have a Balcony or Patio, Flat-Screen TV, Coffee Maker, Irons and ironing board,
Hair dryer.

Dining Onsite

Free Shuttle Service provided to: Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse, Outback Steakhouse, The Keg Steakhouse and Bar, East Side Mario’s, T.G.I.Friday’s, and IHOP.

Entertainment and Recreation

Located across the street from the Fallsview Casino & 1 block from the Falls.
Indoor and Outdoor Pools, Business Center, and 24-hour Mini Mart.

Expires: August 28, 2014
Image Link: http://static.teambuy.ca/deal/708×333/other/28172695-2014-06-12-28172445-2014-06-09-28168992-2014-04-10-28167535-2014-03-24-28153171-bestwestern-fallsview-banner1b.jpg
Merchant: Best Western Fallsview
Merchant Link: http://www.bestwesternfallsview.com

Merchant address: 6289 Fallsview Blvd Niagara Falls Ontario L2G 3V7
Merchant phone: (905) 356-0551


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New Survey Sheds Light On What Married Couples Fight About Most

It is said that money is the root of all evil, so it’s no surprise that married couples fight over money more than any other subject, according to a new survey.

Money Magazine polled 1,010 married adults ages 25 and over with household incomes above $ 50,000 to find out how couples manage their finances once they’ve tied the knot.

Survey results showed that 70 percent of couples argued about money more than household chores, togetherness, sex, snoring and what’s for dinner.

So what exactly are those financial fights all about?

Couples cited frivolous purchases, household budgeting and credit card debt as the biggest sources of friction.

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The survey also revealed that husbands are happiest when their wives earn the same amount or more money than they do. Men with high-earning wives also reported hotter sex lives.

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Now for the not-so-fun facts: 60 percent of husbands and wives said they check their bank accounts more than they have sex and 22 percent said they hide purchases from their spouses.

Head over to Money.com for the full report.

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The Way Couples Divide Household Chores Can Make Or Break A Marriage

Taking out the trash, washing the dishes, or doing laundry may not seem like make-it-or-break it moments for marriages — but according to a new study, how household chores are divided greatly affects relationship satisfaction.

In the study, recently published in Sex Roles, researchers examined 220 newlywed couples who had married within the last 24 months.

Participants were given an online questionnaire that measured two things: cognitive egalitarianism (meaning how couples perceive male and female household responsibilities) and behavioral egalitarianism (how couples actually divide household responsibilities). The participants were asked not to discuss the answers with their spouses.

After examining the results, researchers found that an uneven division of household chores negatively affected wives’ marital satisfaction, especially when wives felt the roles should be more equal. The same was not true for husbands.

“These results were interesting because usually marital satisfaction is studied in only one spouse. Here we were able to see what happens when there’s a discrepancy in spouses’ attitudes on this issue,” Brian G. Ogolsky, a lead author of the study, said in a press release. “If a woman believes that household chores should be divided equally, what happens if they adopt a traditional approach to the matter? The most satisfied couples have similar expectations and follow through on them.”

“For husbands, sharing household tasks isn’t as directly related to their satisfaction. Either they don’t perceive that there is a discrepancy or they have bought into the idea that the [housework] belongs to women,” he said.

The takeaway? Ogolsky notes that since expectations play such a large role in marital happiness, couples should discuss these matters early on. “Newlyweds need to thoughtfully plan how they can make their expectations about sharing chores work out in real life, especially if the new spouses strongly value gender equality in household labor. This issue will only matter more after children start arriving,” he advised.

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Original Resorts – Secluded all inclusive resort for couples in the Riviera Maya

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Wonderful Weddings for Cost-Conscious Couples

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Foolproof advice from wedding planners featured on For Better or For Worse, the popular TLC television show about wedding preparations on a limited budget and timeframe.Strategies, projects, hints, and tips aimed at helping engaged couples save money and have fun planning a spectacular event.Full-color 16-page insert featuring doable, affordable projects and ideas such as veils, floral arrangements, and invitations — along with easy-to-follow instructions.Five interactive quizzes, wedding-day dos and don''ts, and other fun-filled features sure to ease any wedding planning stress.Money-saving ideas for theme weddings, such as fairy-tale, exotic, or 1930s chic.Helpful information to assist the cost-conscious couple in all aspects of wedding planning, including selecting a reception location, hiring a photographer, creating a guest list, buying a dress, choosing food and favors, and more!Convenient planning sections including a budgeting worksheet, space for recording important information such as measurements, contact information, or anything else that needs to be recorded.
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HBO’s ‘The Case Against 8’ Screening Features Reception For Gay Couples At Sundance

PARK CITY, Utah (AP) — Though they are not considered legally married in Utah, several gay and lesbian couples were feted with a wedding celebration as part of HBO’s promotion of its upcoming documentary on gay marriage, “The Case Against 8.”

The film, which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival on Saturday, chronicles two gay couples battling against Proposition 8, the California law approved by voters that banned gay marriage. It was eventually declared unconstitutional. After the documentary’s debut, a reception was held featuring the two couples at the center of the legal fight, along with the film’s directors, Ben Cotner and Ryan White. The reception also featured gay couples at the center of a gay marriage battle in Utah. There was champagne and a wedding cake celebrating their unions, although the legality of them is in dispute.

“The timing is great to have the film released now, in the wake of the ruling here,” said Matthew Barraza, who attended with husband Tony Milner and their young son Jesse.

Last month, more than 1,000 same-sex couples wed in Utah after a federal judge declared the state’s ban on gay marriage unconstitutional. The state is appealing, and the Supreme Court put a halt on same-sex weddings until the case is resolved. In the meantime, Utah is not recognizing those marriages, although the federal government does.

Milner has yet to see “The Case Against 8” but said he appreciated the struggles of the couples featured in it.

“We’ve learned that it’s a battle, but it takes time. There are setbacks, but we think the inevitable result is that we’re going to have marriage equality for all Americans,” he said.

Acclaimed director Rob Reiner was also at the reception. Reiner was active in the battle to overturn Prop. 8 in California and is featured in the movie. He said he was blown away by “The Case Against 8.”

“I knew we had a good movie, but I was just stunned at how impressive it was and the reaction to it. It was amazing,” he said. “It really tells the journey that we went through to overturn Prop. 8.”

The film will air on HBO in June.

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Fitness Journal for Couples

Fitness Journal for Couples


This book was written and designed to help those struggling with the challenge of working out as well as crossing the hurdle of being stagnant and leading to discouragement. Many programs has been designed and laid out but not quite like this one that is structured for you from the beginning to the end. Each book is charted for a two/three month program which also help you to monitor your progress and to keep you accountable to your workout, you can always look back three weeks ago to see how well you progressed and where you use to be as far as the condition of your body. The books are designed in a format that once you enter your first desirable weight for that routine, you can’t go back through the course and do less than that. You can go back once or twice and do the same weight at the beginning stages but you have to push to do more. The program is designed to change you but you have to have determination to make a difference. Last you have to find a manageable diet during the program and make it as strict as your workout. Remember we age day by day and our bodies will tell it first.

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The Gay Couple’s Guide to Wedding Planning: Everything Gay Men Need to Know to Create a Fun, Romantic, and Memorable Ceremony

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Ferti-Boost Reproductive Health For Couples 1 Kit

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Ferti-boost Ferti-Boost is a dietary supplement program developed by Dr. Colin LaGrange for use within his successful, wholistically oriented fertility clinics in Johannesburg and Durban, South Africa. Ferti-Boost is a Natural hormone regulating and stimulating formula for Male and Female infertility. This product is designed to help couples suffering from ‘unexplained infertility syndrome’ where more aggressive therapies are not indicated. It is imported and distributed within the United States by Vibrant Health. Ferti-boostTM supports normal reproductive health*Ferti-boostTM and its mechanism of actionFertility is a complex interplay between many organs, systems, glands, chemicals and tissues. Precise timing and balanced biochemistry within these fertility factors in two separate individual must occur for conception to take place. It is therefore possible for couples to struggle with infertility where mild to no pathology exists. The problem can simply be a poorly balanced interplay of all the factors.Restoration of balanced functioning in the human system is the purpose of natural and holistic alternatives. Quite often, systems need support and assistance rather than the overwhelmingly powerful force of medication.Ferti-boostTM has taken into account the requirement for the body to have all necessary nutrients and efficiently coordinated systems in order for fertility to occur. We have examined many of the areas of potential breakdown that may prevent healthy fertility, and created Ferti-boost to restore, balance and enhance the funtion of all these areas.*Factors necessary for healthy fertilityNothing in the body occurs in isolation. As a consequence, nurturing a system as diverse as the reproductive system calls for a multifaceted approach influencing many areas simultaneously. Ferti-boostTM is just such a coordinated program.Eacxh box of Ferti-boostTM contains 6 formulas; three for the man and three for the woman. Each of them will find a Regulating, a Nourishing, and a Stimulating formula designed just for them.*Ferti-Boost provides appropriately formulated Homeopathic, Western Herbal, and Chinese Herbal dietary supplements to:Nutritionally support endocrine function related to fertility. Restore normal biochemistry within glands, reproducitve tissues and their related systems.Balance and enhance the function of hormonal secretions and tissue biochemistry within the reproductive system.
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Beautiful Photo Captures Elderly Couple’s Enduring Love

If there’s a photo out there that more beautifully captures enduring love, we’re not sure we’ve seen it.

Redditor downvotestickle writes of the photo below, “My 91-year-old grandfather is dying. Caught this beautiful moment between he and my 92-year-old grandmother in the hospital today.”

And if that wasn’t proof enough, their grandson added in the comments that the pair — who have been together 68 years — “still kiss 15 times before bed every night (and will until he can’t any longer).”

“I’m hoping to love my wife as deeply and long as he’s loved his,” he says.

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